Well What Do You Know, He’s Back

Now that I have finally gotten my hope back for all of the men in this world, I think I may actually return to blogging.  I have not been posting anything because honestly most of the comments I am receiving are men crying to me about how their ex’s broke their heart, and they want them back so bad.  STOP.  This is a waste of time, and that is what I am and have been trying to show all of my viewers.  Remember that this is one of the first eras where women are considered equal to men.  I am not sexist; I am simply telling you facts.  Women are taking over some parts of America.  They have been behind the scenes of almost all famous male historic events, but now that they are “officially” equal they are beginning to take over.  I am all for women being equal to men, just like they should be, however; this does not mean that men should bow down and put pussy on a pedestal.  I look down upon those who go into strip clubs, becuase if you were a true man you could go out and get a women in bed with you.  Women do it all the time.  The only difference between us and them is that they keep their fucking mouths shut about it. 

 

A guy gets a girl in bed, and must immediately tell all of his buddies.  In some circumstances, an immature male will even brag in front of the girl that he did the dirty deed with!  Defy your natural human instinct to brag, and try being humble for a change. 

 

“No. Try not. Do… or do not. There is no try.” – Yoda

 

Study my past posts and find out for yourselves.  That is the only way that you can learn.  I refuse to answer cry baby questions.  If I believe you can do it, then you can.  I learned the hard way.  You will learn that there are two paths you can take in this life: the easy way or the hard way.  Almost ninety-nine percent of the time, the hard way is much more rewarding.  Think long term, and not the short term.  Ultimately, you need to have the attitude that it is over forever.  This girl is out of your ilfe.  If she loved you as much as your tears are worth, she would have already been trying to get back with you.  She broke up with you…why are you sad?  The best form of revenge is success.  Go fucking do something with your life, and stop crying about your ex.  Throwing away your life over a women is one of the dumbest things a man can do, but believe you me it happens more often than you think.  Reverse this pattern and be a real man.  Succeed through the tough times, because what else are you going to do ?  Nothing?  Than enjoy being miserable for the rest of your life.  Do something.  Please. 

 

– A

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Behavior in the Beginning = Behavior Throughout

In a post from last year I discuss boundaries that I recommend be set as early as possible:

After you have successfully entered the relationship you need to create solid boundaries and talk to her about them.  Write a list of boundaries (things that you will not put with.)

My list looks like this:

  • Lying to me
  • Cheating
  • Treating me with disrespect
  • Playing head games

Once your girlfriend knows exactly what you do not put up with in a relationship is when you have a successful foundation to your relationship.

These boundaries are not of the controlling nature (tell her that), because a controlling boyfriend is very unattractive. She must know that she is free to cross them and trust me she will at one point in time in the relationship.  Women love to test us men.  Women are programmed to naturally want a man that will be a good father, because of animal instincts.  People neglect to realize that just because we have a large cerebral cortex compared to other animals does not mean that we are not animals too.  Society will always run in an instinctual way.  When women are looking for a husband they are looking for a man with dexterity.   In order for a man to be a good father he must be emotionally intact, and this is why it is not their fault.  You must guard these boundaries with punishments (read the punishment section).  Women want a man with strong boundaries, if you let her cross them freely she will lose respect for you and ultimately end up breaking up with you.  Head my warning.  Don’t be a B***CH.

Bouncing off of boundaries – We are going to talk about how to act during the very beginning of the relationship.

It is incredibly important that you do not hide how you really are in public and behind closed doors.  It is necessary to act in your own way, and be comfortable with who you are as a person.  People commonly make this mistake.

For Example:  I meet this gorgeous girl, and I end up getting her number.  We continue to date for a period of time, and then I decide it is time I ask her if she wants a relationship with me.  From this moment on I decide to be the best boyfriend ever, and take her out to dinner at least once a week even though I can not afford to.  Two months pass by and I am running out of cash.  We end up not going out to dinner this weekend, but when I try to explain to my girlfriend that I can’t afford it she gets angry.  She is used to being courted and dressing up for me.  Next weekend the same occurs, and she starts equating this behavior as her own fault.  Problems will arise.

In this scenario I made a couple of big mistakes that insure that (1) This girl will eventually break up with me (2)  That I will be heart-broken and ultimately struggle with the balance of my life for some time period(t).  This type of meeting happens every day, and men are continuously being put down.  The funny part to all of this is that it is no ones’ fault except for the person who allowed this women to tear them down and put their life on hold.  You are in control of what happens to you, and the future that you will have.  Furthermore,  do not EVER “decide” to be a good boyfriend.  It will cause you to think and act in ways that appear needy and unattractive.  Instead, you must view yourself as a man with confidence, but do not fake confidence.  Women can sense it a mile away.  If you are a man that is having trouble getting women, the “How to get your Ex-Girlfriend Back” teaches you exactly how to behave to increase your confidence and gives you the ability to attract women.

 

Next week we are going to talk about a book called “The art of Seduction” and a few key points I would like to center on.  Stay tuned.

 

-Aidan

New posts will begin..

Surprisingly this blog has grown some popularity.  I have literally done nothing for this to come about.  I have decided to continue my quest for a website, and will continue regular postings May 18th.  I will try to have regular posts each week.  If you have any questions that you need answering (specific questions of what to do in certain situations) I will answer them.  All you have to do is ask if I can make a post about a topic that you choose.  Comments will be accepted, and you never know your post may very well be what I write about on May 18th!  Much love. 

, Aidan

To all the bastards commenting my posts with ads….

Hello.  STOP POSTING COMMENTS ABOUT HOW YOU HAVE SOME GUY WHO CLAIMS TO BE A “DOCTOR” THAT CAN CURE YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS.  i AM A PROFESSIONAL, AND THIS IS TRULY DISRESPECTFUL.  I AM FOREWARNING YOU THAT ALL FUTURE COMMENTS WITH ADS ARE BEING DELETED.  THERE IS A TOTAL OF COMMENTS, AND EVERY SINGLE ONE HAS BEEN DELETED.  TAKE YOUR BULLSHIT SOMEWHERE ELSE.  Thank you. 

 

, Aidan

Getting Your Ex Back Starts the Moment You Break Up

There seems to be some misconceptions on the “How to get your ex-girlfriend back P1 & P2”.  The title is not some mumbo jumbo that I made up.  The moment you and your girlfriend break it off is the moment you need to start behaving in a different manner.  The comments I have been getting are asking me how to get the ex back when (1) It has been a month or two or (2) She is already dating someone else.  I am a cut and dry type of guy so I am just going to come out and say this.  I AM NOT A MIRACLE WORKER.  If you are still crying over an ex months later you need to reorganize yourself and your ideals.  You need to start realizing what you appear to be on the outside: how people view you.  If your ex starts dating another guy this should be a sign that you need to move on, which is the trick to getting your girlfriend back in the first place.  “Women want the man who can get over them before they do”.  This is not a joke!  You need to reassess yourself and stop worrying about what she is doing.  “Stop worrying about what other people’s actions are; the only person you can control is yourself, and sometimes you can not even control that!”.  MOVE ON AND SHE WILL COME BACK TO YOU.  Trust me.  I cannot stress this enough.  This is the type of bullshit that I am talking about with men these days.  Women are starting to take control which is why I made this blog in the first place.  This website is not for you to cry to me and beg me for a solution to a problem that does not need a solution!   Be a MAN and move on.  If you are going to comment my blog and give me a sob story you do not belong here.  Go cry to your mom if that is the type of man you are.  Instead of telling me some sob story ask me “how do I move on Aidan?”.  By moving on she will come running back to you.  It is that simple.  1.  Do not initiate contact ever (it is okay for her to contact you).  2.  Move on with your life and stop feeling sorry for yourself, because when it comes down to it YOU are the only one that has control of your destiny.  If your going to cry about every girl that breaks up with you then you will ultimately fail in life, and in relationships. 

 

Men.  I apologize for going on a rant, but the truth hurts.  It hurts for a reason, and that’s because you want to pretend that there is a way.  Well there isn’t!  Follow my instructions on how to move on and that is all.  You need to actually read what I am saying to get anything out of it.  Good luck. 

Aidan

Cheating…Cheater and Cheatee Guide

English: Woman, broken heart.

English: Woman, broken heart. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

First, before we get to the “how-to get out of trouble” lesson I want you to ask yourself.  If your going to be in a relationship then be in a relationship.  If your going to mess around while your with someone you could end up really hurting them.  Not only that but now you get the reputation as a player and a cheater.  Once your flagged consider yourself dateless for quite some time.  It is a very very good idea to not cheat plain and simple.

 

You cheated on your girlfriend

–  Sometimes your drunk and you make-out with a girl.  This is not that terrible although it is still cheating.  Furthermore, alcohol is NO EXCUSE to cheat on anyone.

– If any of my viewers have ever noticed… when a guy tells a girl he cheated they usually want to know if he has feelings for this new girl.  However if a guy gets cheated on they usually want to know what they did sexually…

Step one:  Amplify her feelings

Tell her straight up that you messed up and had no intention of hurting her.  Tell her that you have absolutely no feelings for this girl and even go as far to say cheating made me realize what I had and I really do not want to lose you.  Trust me these work.  Your going to be annoyed for the next couple of months (depending on the severity of the adultery) by her because women, unfortunately, take time to get over things.  Give her as long as she needs and you better be there for her every time.  Do not be selfish.. put yourself in her shoes.  What if you got cheated on ?

Your Girlfriend Cheated On You

I know this is probably not going to brighten your day but you absolutely need to break-up with her immediately.  This is one of my personal boundaries.  You need to think of cheating as a way to filter out girls that are not for you.  You deserve better than a cheating chick..

Story:

My high-school sweet-heart made me regret ever taking back someone who cheated on you.  I loved her so much that I didn’t want to lose her.  I just forgave her and basically sent the message that it was okay for her to do what she did.  She ended up breaking up with me anyway because saying that the reason she cheated was because of me.  I was crushed.  I learned my lesson that day.

 

You see women cheat because they become un-attracted to you.  When they see you crying all the time when you took them back after they cheated they become even more un-attracted to you.  By breaking up with them it sets up a much better scenario for you and puts you in control.  You can play hard to get so badly that she turns into your personal slave…  but remember you have to act cool calm and collective.  If you ignore her she will probably make fun of you for being immature.  You need to resist this, it might piss you off but you must send the message that you will not be talked to like that.

 

So remember boys DO NOT CHEAT.  It’s not worth it.

-Aidan

 

 

 

Great News… and bad news

Right now I am currently working on creating and web developing my own site.  The bad news is.. I need things to be perfect and perfection takes time.  I will take as long as I please in coming out with the new site but trust me it’s going to be amazing.  My deadline is August 1st.. hope to see you then (:

 

-Aidan