- Jealousy stems from a place of insecurity. If you act jealous because your girlfriend gives another guy a hug or even says hello (like most crazy boyfriends) she will start to lose respect for you. Now you can’t blame her because society runs on an animal instinct and they always will. Ever wonder why you, as a man, find a women’s ass or breasts attractive? It is because your animal instinct tells you that this would be a good women to mate with. Men are attracted to beauty while women for the most part are attracted to a man’s behavior. You see, it takes a strong (both physically and mentally) man to raise a child, and this is what women search for. So how should you act in a way that both rids you of insecurity (i.e. jealousy)? One of the most important mentalities to have is to think to yourself “all men just make me look good”. Your women will be impressed at the fact that you have no problem with her talking to other guys (there is no amount of bitching you can do to get her to stop talking to the opposite sex). It ultimately shows your self-confident enough to let her do what she wants and know that she will come back to you (which she always will). If she wanted other guys so bad she would be with them so don’t waste your time thinking that by letting her talk to other guys she will automatically cheat on you. Just act cool, calm and collective. If your out in public and she sees a guy she knows introduce yourself if she hasn’t, shake his hand and say nice to meet you. Doing all of this just makes you look better and letting her talk to other guys throughout the relationship will just make you look way better in the long wrong.