Question to all bloggers and viewers… have you personally, as a man, ever won an argument with a women?
If your answer is yes, your lying your ass off. Come on now. When is the last time you have ever heard of a man winning an argument with his women? Almost Never! One of the main reasons is because when men argue their heart rate builds, veins pop out, and they go ballistic on their girl making it so easy for their women to make you look terrible. An attractive trait; self control. Having control over your emotions is key when battling with women. Which brings me to rule number one.
- Rule #1 DO NOT ARGUE
Yes, it is literally that simple. Raising your voice, throwing shit, breaking shit is a no no. It will only show that you have no self control and ultimately give her the avenue to make you look terrible. If it is something stupid; treat it as something stupid. Look at her with a crazy stare like “is she really babbling about this?”(pretend she is a quacking duck or another funny face). If it is something really really really stupid: Tell her you find her unattractive at the moment, because she is babbling about the silliest thing. She will likely stop acting crazy because women are all about self-appearance (hair, make-up, etc.). Telling her that her behavior is unattractive to you will shut her down speechless, however, if there is really something bothering her then let her vent. But make sure it is known that you want to conduct this talk in a mature manner with no crazy yelling or things along the like involved.
- Rule #2 If you lose your self-control SHE AUTOMATICALLY WINS
You absolutely need to control your emotions when dealing with women. Act cool and calm at all times. Women are emotional creatures and have a much easier time arguing in a heightened stance (when the shit hits the fan).
- Rule #3 Be open minded
If your girlfriend (or any women for that matter) has a really good point, do not deny or act stubborn just because you do not want to be wrong. Be a man and admit your faults, it takes a true person to admit when they are wrong and ultimately shows character.
- Rule #4 Focus on her emotions when arguing Emphasize her emotions, the way she is feeling. Men naturally want to fix the situation because face it that’s how we are. We see a problem, fix it. WRONG (with dealing women anyway). Say something like “I totally understand why your feeling that way” and continue from there. You barely have to fix anything! Just talk about how she is feeling at the moment.
***next topic: how to apologize while being a self respectable man***