Cheating…Cheater and Cheatee Guide

English: Woman, broken heart.

English: Woman, broken heart. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

First, before we get to the “how-to get out of trouble” lesson I want you to ask yourself.  If your going to be in a relationship then be in a relationship.  If your going to mess around while your with someone you could end up really hurting them.  Not only that but now you get the reputation as a player and a cheater.  Once your flagged consider yourself dateless for quite some time.  It is a very very good idea to not cheat plain and simple.

 

You cheated on your girlfriend

–  Sometimes your drunk and you make-out with a girl.  This is not that terrible although it is still cheating.  Furthermore, alcohol is NO EXCUSE to cheat on anyone.

– If any of my viewers have ever noticed… when a guy tells a girl he cheated they usually want to know if he has feelings for this new girl.  However if a guy gets cheated on they usually want to know what they did sexually…

Step one:  Amplify her feelings

Tell her straight up that you messed up and had no intention of hurting her.  Tell her that you have absolutely no feelings for this girl and even go as far to say cheating made me realize what I had and I really do not want to lose you.  Trust me these work.  Your going to be annoyed for the next couple of months (depending on the severity of the adultery) by her because women, unfortunately, take time to get over things.  Give her as long as she needs and you better be there for her every time.  Do not be selfish.. put yourself in her shoes.  What if you got cheated on ?

Your Girlfriend Cheated On You

I know this is probably not going to brighten your day but you absolutely need to break-up with her immediately.  This is one of my personal boundaries.  You need to think of cheating as a way to filter out girls that are not for you.  You deserve better than a cheating chick..

Story:

My high-school sweet-heart made me regret ever taking back someone who cheated on you.  I loved her so much that I didn’t want to lose her.  I just forgave her and basically sent the message that it was okay for her to do what she did.  She ended up breaking up with me anyway because saying that the reason she cheated was because of me.  I was crushed.  I learned my lesson that day.

 

You see women cheat because they become un-attracted to you.  When they see you crying all the time when you took them back after they cheated they become even more un-attracted to you.  By breaking up with them it sets up a much better scenario for you and puts you in control.  You can play hard to get so badly that she turns into your personal slave…  but remember you have to act cool calm and collective.  If you ignore her she will probably make fun of you for being immature.  You need to resist this, it might piss you off but you must send the message that you will not be talked to like that.

 

So remember boys DO NOT CHEAT.  It’s not worth it.

-Aidan

 

 

 

I Don’t Care What women say…

I don’t really care what women say; naturally, they will always want to be lead by a man who makes them feel feminine.  You need to act in a way that makes your girlfriend feel feminine .

How do you do that Aidan?

Well boys and girls it’s quite simple.  Act in an “attractive manner”.  I bet you ten million dollars most guys have no idea how to treat women or behave around them. To act attractively is quite simple.

There are a total of 5 attractive traits that women, unsuspectingly to their conscious thinking, are indeed attracted to.  They are as follows:

  1. Make up your damn mind!

– Be decisive.  Knowing what you want to do with your life and going toward those goals is a turn on to women.   Take the lead in your relationship and actively take the lead.  For example, when your girlfriend asks you what do you want to do tonight you should respond with something, anything.  Lead your girlfriend.

2. Self- control

–  Maturity = Masculinity .  Maturity is all about being responsible.  In order to master this trait one must first control anger and be spontaneous or happy when dealing with life.

3. Be Assertive!

–  Your opinion is powerful, do not change your opinions to fit in with the crowd.  Believe in yourself and do not waver.  Let go of the fear of being judged by your girlfriend and speak your mind more.  Know where you stand in a conversation or on an issue but don’t be a dick about it.  Instead of looking to your girlfriend for approval (which is unattractive)  have some self validation.

4.  Modesty

– Easy way to be modest without really trying that hard is simple; do not brag about anything.  Know that you look good, know that your going to be successful, know that your girlfriend is wrapped around your finger BUT do not talk about it.  If someone compliments you just simply say thank you.  Women are attracted to the men that refuse to let others put them on a pedestal.  Remember do not brag.

5.  Ambition

–  Ever seen those axe commercials where the women jump on the male with the best scent?  That’s what ambition does to women.  Make your goals known to your significant other.  Figure out what you are passionate about in life and share it with the world (without bragging).  Trust me your girlfriend will be extremely attracted to you.

All my work so far flows together.  Like the organs in your body you cannot live without anyone of them, they work as a team to sustain your life.  These attributes put together is like sweet music floating in the air.  Your life will start to change..

Thanks for reading

-Aidan