The Reason Relationships End..

Why do relationships end?  “Love, with time, turns ugly”.  This quote has been used for centuries, however, it is not true.  Love will always be beautiful, it is the people who turn their relations with each other into hatred.  In my eyes there is no need for this hatred; even I have had my breakups but even now today I remain friends with all of my ex’s because there is no need to carry hatred in your heart.  [This comes from a great article http://www.marcandangel.com/2011/12/11/30-things-to-stop-doing-to-yourself/].  So why does something so beautiful at first have to have an end?

We live in a world where change is coming everyday.  For the first time in centuries women have the right to vote, women have the right to abort their pregnancies, women have the right to take birth control, and women are now a strong part of the workforce.  You see as time goes on, women are starting to become more masculine while men are becoming more feminine which is causing most of the break-ups in this world today.

Introducing: Male and Female Polarity (The relative orientation of poles; the direction of a magnetic or electric field) aka The Key To Lasting Attraction

The definition above maybe unclear to some.  It basically means the attraction of males and females.  As I have said before women will always be attracted to a masculine man because that trait makes women feel feminine.  The more you make her feel feminine the stronger the attraction for you will grow.

So to answer the question above: Why do most relationships end?

[For those who have dealt with being broken up with]

  • Were you acting more and more submissive in arguments?
  • Did you feel that your girlfriend had dominance over you by the way she behaved?
  • Did your girlfriend have a leash on you?
  • Did you feel controlled by your girlfriend at the time?

If you answer is yes to any of these questions you are probably realizing why you were broken up with.  Your women began to feel masculine because of the control over you that she had.  As a result, you began to feel feminine!  This opposition absolutely killed the attraction levels your girlfriend at the time had for you and thus, the relationship ended.

To avoid this, the man must assume the role he was born into.  He must be the dominant leader and by default the woman assumes the role of a follower; ultimately making her feel feminine.  There is no controlling behavior you must extend to force her into this position you simply must act as a mature, masculine man and she will automatically fall into place.  In the world we live in, masculine men are a dying breed and I’m here to repopulate the planet (:

If you have any questions or want to ask me specifically what went wrong with your previous relationship feel free to comment with your personal email and i will gladly email you (and delete your comment so you do not compromise your privacy).

Thanks for Reading!

– Aidan

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I Don’t Care What women say…

I don’t really care what women say; naturally, they will always want to be lead by a man who makes them feel feminine.  You need to act in a way that makes your girlfriend feel feminine .

How do you do that Aidan?

Well boys and girls it’s quite simple.  Act in an “attractive manner”.  I bet you ten million dollars most guys have no idea how to treat women or behave around them. To act attractively is quite simple.

There are a total of 5 attractive traits that women, unsuspectingly to their conscious thinking, are indeed attracted to.  They are as follows:

  1. Make up your damn mind!

– Be decisive.  Knowing what you want to do with your life and going toward those goals is a turn on to women.   Take the lead in your relationship and actively take the lead.  For example, when your girlfriend asks you what do you want to do tonight you should respond with something, anything.  Lead your girlfriend.

2. Self- control

–  Maturity = Masculinity .  Maturity is all about being responsible.  In order to master this trait one must first control anger and be spontaneous or happy when dealing with life.

3. Be Assertive!

–  Your opinion is powerful, do not change your opinions to fit in with the crowd.  Believe in yourself and do not waver.  Let go of the fear of being judged by your girlfriend and speak your mind more.  Know where you stand in a conversation or on an issue but don’t be a dick about it.  Instead of looking to your girlfriend for approval (which is unattractive)  have some self validation.

4.  Modesty

– Easy way to be modest without really trying that hard is simple; do not brag about anything.  Know that you look good, know that your going to be successful, know that your girlfriend is wrapped around your finger BUT do not talk about it.  If someone compliments you just simply say thank you.  Women are attracted to the men that refuse to let others put them on a pedestal.  Remember do not brag.

5.  Ambition

–  Ever seen those axe commercials where the women jump on the male with the best scent?  That’s what ambition does to women.  Make your goals known to your significant other.  Figure out what you are passionate about in life and share it with the world (without bragging).  Trust me your girlfriend will be extremely attracted to you.

All my work so far flows together.  Like the organs in your body you cannot live without anyone of them, they work as a team to sustain your life.  These attributes put together is like sweet music floating in the air.  Your life will start to change..

Thanks for reading

-Aidan

Rules for arguing with women

Question to all bloggers and viewers… have you personally, as a man, ever won an argument with a women?

If your answer is yes, your lying your ass off.  Come on now.  When is the last time you have ever heard of a man winning an argument with his women?  Almost Never!  One of the main reasons is because when men argue their heart rate builds, veins pop out, and they go ballistic on their girl making it so easy for their women to make you look terrible.  An attractive trait; self control.  Having control over your emotions is key when battling with women.  Which brings me to rule number one.

Yes, it is literally that simple.  Raising your voice, throwing shit, breaking shit is a no no.  It will only show that you have no self control and ultimately give her the avenue to make you look terrible.  If it is something stupid; treat it as something stupid.  Look at her with a crazy stare like “is she really babbling about this?”(pretend she is a quacking duck or another funny face).  If it is something really really really stupid: Tell her you find her unattractive at the moment, because she is babbling about the silliest thing.  She will likely stop acting crazy because women are all about self-appearance (hair, make-up, etc.).  Telling her that her behavior is unattractive to you will shut her down speechless, however, if there is really something bothering her then let her vent.  But make sure it is known that you want to conduct this talk in a mature manner with no crazy yelling or things along the like involved.

  • Rule #2 If you lose your self-control SHE AUTOMATICALLY WINS

You absolutely need to control your emotions when dealing with women.  Act cool and calm at all times.  Women are emotional creatures and have  a much easier time arguing in a heightened stance (when the shit hits the fan).

  • Rule #3 Be open minded

If your girlfriend (or any women for that matter) has a really good point, do not deny or act stubborn just because you do not want to be wrong.  Be a man and admit your faults, it takes a true person to admit when they are wrong and ultimately shows character.

  • Rule #4 Focus on her emotions when arguing                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           Emphasize her emotions, the way she is feeling.  Men naturally want to fix the situation because face it that’s how we are.  We see a problem, fix it.  WRONG (with dealing women anyway).  Say something like “I totally understand why your feeling that way” and continue from there.  You barely have to fix anything!  Just talk about how she is feeling at the moment.

– Aidan

***next topic: how to apologize while being a self respectable man***

Women DO NOT want a little puppy to take care of.

Today we are going to talk about a two things: Approval seeking behaviors and putting your girlfriend high up there (on a pedestal)

  • Approval seeking

Constantly asking your girlfriend if this is okay, or if that is okay is a big no no.  You are a man with your own problems and should be able to take care of your own conflicts.  One of the most attractive traits of a masculine man is to be Self-assured.  To be self-assured is to not compromise your own opinions to fit in.  Believe in the power of your own opinions and protect them.  Being externally validation savvy is a big red flag to women.  It shows them that you have low self esteem (confidence).  Women want a man who is self-reliant, once again going back to the animal instinct: women are attracted to a man who would be a good care-giver for their child (they do not consciously think this, however, this is what they are attracted to).

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  • Putting your girlfriend high up there (on a pedestal)

Women want a man with his own needs, his own responsibilities besides them.  If you put your girlfriend ahead of your needs she will lose respect for you and ultimately break up with you because of loss of attraction.  You want to show your girlfriend that you have shit to get done too.  You really like her, however, being in a relationship does not mean losing touch with the world (friends, jobs, responsibilities).   Furthermore, putting your girlfriend on a pedestal will make you become to emotionally involved, and eventually when she brings down the hammer you will be crushed.  Not putting your girlfriend on a pedestal protects you from being extremely broken heart-ed to the point where your life gets put on hold.

-Aidan

***next topic is arguing, learning what to do and what not to do.***

Insecurity continued…and continued again

Boyfriends being controlling! (BAD)

Follow this philosophy: the tighter you clench your fists the easier she will slip out of your hands.

Controlling behavior is an absolute no no.  She is her own women just like you are your own man.  How would you feel if your girlfriend was asking where you were constantly, getting pissed off if there was even a women in the room with you, demanding you be here or leave there.  When approaching a relationship it is always best to give them absolute freedom to do whatever it is that they want to do as long as it’s nothing big that go against your boundaries (a topic for another day).  In fact, guys that act this way will most likely end up being broken heart-ed because a healthy women (one not crazy and has some self respect) would not put up with that!  (psshh i know i wouldn’t).  So remember **** Give your women (any women in a relationship with you) absolute freedom to do whatever it is that she wants to do.******  If she messes up while under the absolute freedom approach that’s fine… think of it as cycling through the bitches and tell yourself (look in the mirror if you have to) that there is someone else better out there.  I know right? hard to believe that there are a million other women out there…not

– Aidan