This post is for the times when a girlfriend starts to cross your boundaries (we will touch on this topic Sunday). When a girlfriend tries to cross your boundaries she is disrespecting you. Now, disrespect can mean a multitude of things (whatever that means to you).
Remember that your approval is just as powerful as your disapproval!
For little things I like to address the conflict in the following manner:
” You know, one of the things I love about you is that you are always such a sweet,
heartfelt person but as of late you have been pretty rude and disrespectful. I didn’t
expect this out of you.”
Clean it up whatever way you like, add in other words, slang and blah blah blah. This usually works, you will get an apology 99% of the time.
In short: You are being kind yet firm at the same time not rude in any way but dealing with the situation in a mature manner.
- In a relaxed and calm tone tell her what you like or admire about her
- Then tell her what actions/behaviors you do not like that you do not approve of (your approval is powerful)
**There will be another post tomorrow about entering a relationship before we continue on punishment***